I am a sensualist and definitely a 'top'. Enjoy mutual satisfaction and enjoyment. I understand what 'NO' means. I have soft hands, a gentle mouth and a very educated tongue. ;-) My fetishes say it all.I enjoy the sensualism of mutual sex as long as we all enjoy. The sex at birth has no reflexion on what is enjoyed now. I always think it is such a waste when maidens milk and maidens water go to waste, when I was young to drink was part of being a gentleman.Be you, enjoy the moment.